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Gutsy Living – Life’s Too Short To Play It Safe

I am honored to win this month’s My Gutsy Story Contest. 

See link: http://soniamarsh.com/2013/12/winner-of-the-november-my-gutsy-story-ed-robinson.html

Sonia Marsh, author of Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family’s Year of Gutsy Living on a Tropical Island, celebrates the gutsy in each of us with this collection of stories from 64 authors who found the courage to face their fears and live their dreams. What makes these stories unique is the authors’ willingness to openly share the obstacles they surmounted, and the strength they developed to overcome doubt, fear, rejection, and grief. These stories of love, courage and adventure will inspire you to follow their lead and experience your own gutsy adventure. If one story speaks to you directly and results in a change in your own life, please e-mail Sonia Marsh directly at sonia@soniamarsh.com. As Sonia says, “My goal is to bring out the gutsy in you.” Some take off for distant places, others dive into the deep. Many quit successful jobs to sail around the world, write a novel, or take on an inner challenge. This book is filled with tales from people who have decided to live their passion, act out their dreams, revisit the challenges of their youth. It’s about conquering fears, taking risks, and learning to love the person you’ve become.

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Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family’s Year of Gutsy Living on a Tropical Island

What do you do when life in sunny Southern California starts to seem plastic, materialistic and just plain hellish? For Sonia and Duke Marsh, the answer was to sell their worldly goods and move to an unspoiled, simpler life with their three sons in Belize, Central America, a third-world country without all the comforts and distractions of life in the developed world. Sonia hopes the move will bring her shattered family back together. She feels her sons slipping away from her, and her overworked husband never has time for her or the boys. Instead, things begin to go wrong immediately. The home they initially rented isn’t available, so the family is forced to take up residence in a primitive, bug-infested shack. Duke’s telecommuting plans prove impractical because of unreliable Internet access, and he loses his job. Middle son Alec – always a conscientious, polite, tractable child – misses his friends and has trouble adjusting. As the days turn into months, Sonia finds herself questioning the family’s decision to move on a nearly daily basis. This is the story of one family’s search for paradise. In this memoir, Sonia chronicles a year of defeats, fears and setbacks – and also the ultimate triumph of seeing once-frayed family ties grow back stronger from shared challenges and misfortunes. For Sonia, paradise turned out not to be a place, but an appreciation of life’s simple pleasures – a close-knit family and three well-adjusted sons with a global outlook on life.

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Gutsy Living

 Today I am honored to be showcased at Gutsy Living. Sonia Marsh is the author of Freeways 
To Flip Flops, and the My Gutsy Story Anthology. Her blog shares true stories of love, courage, and adventure from around the world. 

 

My Gutsy Story is titled “A Leap Of Faith”.  I hope for it to be included in the second Gutsy Story anthology. You can read it here:  http://networkedblogs.com/R1Ldt

 

Here’s the text: 

 

A Leap Of Faith

My wife and I found ourselves discontented.  We had good jobs, a strong marriage and an all around decent, middle class, American life.  Somehow it wasn’t enough.  We decided to make a change, a really big change.

We decided to quit our jobs and run away to paradise to live on a boat.  At first it was a crazy dream. Later, as we planned and took actual real steps to make it happen, it became a true possibility. Eventually we made our dreams come true.

How did we do it? What steps did we take?  First we tackled our debt. We continued working hard and made it our life’s goal to eliminate all of our debt.  It took several  years of dedication, but we finally managed to rid ourselves of every single debt we had. What a feeling!

Next we saved money. Without a car payment or credit card bills this was not so hard.  We simply kept on living at the same comfort level we previous enjoyed, but put all the now freed up cash into savings. We maxed out our 401k plan contributions. We put every spare cent in the bank.

Along the way we learned to stop buying things we didn’t need.  We simply quit buying anything new unless we could eat it, drink it, or wipe our butts with it. We started donating clothing to Goodwill.  As our load was lightened, we started to feel unburdened.  It was then that we made the decision to get rid of EVERYTHING.  That’s right, we sold or gave away everything we owned, except some clothing, laptop, and a few momentos we couldn’t part with.

One day we decided we had taken enough of the ‘work till you die world’ and we quit the rat race.  We loaded our meager remaining belongings into our pickup truck and headed south on I-95 for Florida. Did we have enough money saved to carry us for the rest of our lives? Nope. Did we have enough to hold us over until we reached Social Security age?  Probably not.  What did we have?  We had enough to buy a decent boat and enough to live on for several years.  We called it our Leap Of Faith.  We were going to live for today.  Tomorrow? Who knows?

Oh what a feeling of freedom we enjoyed driving south.  We had no job to report to.  We had no bills to pay.  Of course, we had no home either, but that didn’t matter to us.  We were only looking ahead.  We landed in Punta Gorda, Florida on January 3, 2010.  We rented a condo for a month while we boat shopped.  Soon we settled on a gorgeous classic trawler, laid our money down and moved aboard.  We named our new home Leap Of Faith.

After a getting acquainted period, we threw the lines, left the marina and set off to explore the west coast of Florida. We lived at anchor, mostly off uninhabited islands. We became one with nature. We made friends with the dolphins and manatees.  We staked claim to our own personal beach.  Every night we celebrated the sunset. Every night we slept the sleep of the contented.

Once we got our sea legs we began to travel. We cruised to the Keys, hopping from island to island until we landed in Key West.

We cruised north, falling in love with Longboat key and the Manatee River.  The place we called home was Pelican Bay, a pristine cove tucked between the islands of Cayo Costa and Punta Blanca.  We would spend months isolated from society, returning only to re-provision occasionally.  Our love for each other deepened dramatically.  We learned so much about each other.  We also learned to appreciate the silence sometimes.  We slowed down our pace and took in the beauty of nature.  We discovered our Eden in Pelican Bay.

Ed and his wife, Kim.

Our blood pressure lowered.  Our heart rates slowed.  Time itself slowed down for us.  We lost weight. We felt healthier.  We felt happier.  We were so damn happy, sometimes we would just sit and laugh at our good fortune.  We still feel that way today.

Money?  Yes we still had to spend some.  Food, fuel, boat maintenance and repairs all added up. Two major boat repairs took a big chunk of what was left of our savings.  We lasted three years before we started to get nervous about how little money we had left.  I constantly reassured my wife, “It will work out.”  Soon enough we returned to civilization.  I wrote a book that is selling moderately well at Amazon.  I also picked up a part-time job at the marina. My wife is waiting tables in town.  I’m well into writing a second book and we are starting to rebuild our bank account.

We have absolutely no regrets.  We’ve got egrets, but no regrets.  What will we do when the bank account gets big enough?  Take off again of course!

ED ROBINSON was a reporter and editor of a weekly newspaper, The Smyrna Times. He was also a contributing writer for The Mariner Magazine, a Maryland based publication covering all things boating and fishing. After twenty years working for a major utility, he quit his job and moved onto a boat. He and his wife Kim are somewhere on the west coast of Florida.

His book Leap Of Faith / Quit Your Job And Live On A Boat is currently a best seller at Amazon.com.

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